maybe the girly mags and popular wisdom have got it all wrong. maybe the woman who wrote a book on how to hook a man and get married (!) has got it all wrong.
that you don't set yourself up to find love - you go out to singles parties and clubs and wherever else, meet guys, chat them up and date them and make lists of what you want in a man.
maybe the answer is getting the soil of the heart ready for love which demands commitment, unselfishness, trust and faith. and it's an internal process which begins with knowing, trusting and loving yourself first. and building up yourself to be a functioning, whole and integrated individual ready to make space for another person in your life on a deeper level.
i'm still finding out.
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