Saturday, January 05, 2008

The Sex DVD Scandal and Brokeback Mountain

just the other day i was messing about with my comp when my bro in law, who was watching tv, told me that Dr Chua was the guy in the sex dvd.

my first thought was how much pain the wife, and his family members must have gone through. and my mind reached back to a scene from Brokeback Mountain - when the wife of one of the cowboys turns over in her bed and night and cries herself to sleep after discovering that her husband is in an affair with another man.
part of the pain is discovering the homosexuality. But more importantly, it is about the lies and deception that the men, in both cases, put their loved ones through. and lies always hurt, wound, destroy.

a prayer for the wife and family, and for him to hopefully not do this anymore.
and to someone else who is in a better place - your pain was great but know that it's over now. and you were loved.
and to God, for how close it was to this. but You saw fit to stop it. thank you.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey! GLAD to know that both clyne and me are missed :P
take care and see ya!

the Sojourner said...

hahahaha. :P
when are you coming down? and put lah your name or something.
anonymous pulak. chekz!